Apologies for the cunt-centric nature of this big boob blog post but, while I was going to put this on My Vagina Site, we just don’t get enough audience interaction in terms of comments over there and I’m really curious as to your opinions on this issue:
Teens today live in trouble times. Why, we just heard on the telly the other day that kids are having sex right away and fingering has become passé! When I was growing up, pussy fingering was an important part of getting to 3rd base with a girl, so it makes me feel sad to think this tried and true traditional teenage courtship ritual may be vanishing from our midst with the horny youth of today instead intent on skipping this most critical stage of sexual development and just jumping in to fucking from the start. Now, I know young girls still give handjobs to their boyfriends (and sometimes others) as a mutual masturbation matter of course, but are the boys not fingering their girlfriends first any more?
However, we’ve also heard that internet pornography is to blame for the death of fingering first, sex second. Well, to such a short-sighted attitude I’d have to put out the counter argument that, if that’s the case, then they’re watching the wrong porn! I believe this video of 38G busty British dirty blonde Amber Hall being masturbated by a male fuck buddy as he sexually multitasks by fondling her gorgeous G-cup breast and pinching her left nipple to encourage orgasm shall illustrate my opposing opinion nicely…
…and that’s only just over a minute into their extended female masturbation foreplay session, as finger fucking soon ensues with multiple orgasms all around in this long pussy pleasuring pre-coital prelude to sex.
But, be that as it may, I’m still most interested in how others feel about the lack of fingering issue. The erotic example above notwithstanding, is the practice of pussy fingering becoming a lost art? And, if so, how will boys learn the proper way to pleasure a girl’s pussy when a penis isn’t enough (and to those cock sure they know how to give a girl an orgasm through sex alone I ask, “Have you ever watched your girlfriend masturbating herself?” as, indeed, her most sensitive sex bits are on the outside (well, apart from the g-spot and anterior fornix)!)?
Ah, so many sex questions. So, whilst I wait in patient anticipation for your considered response on the “is fingering dead?” issue, here’s sexy huge tits and large labia lips lovely Amber Hall enjoying far more than a good finger fucking in her hardcore Plumper Pussy Beating video from PlumperPass.com:
I’m 26 and I still round the bases in order. More buildup tends to make it better for all involved :)
ha ha the old wet dip as we used to call it in the 60s ,, yes this right of passage seems to be long gone as kids nowadays are straight into fucking and sucking without even considering first base and its down to easy access of internet porn in my opinion… young lads now set there sights high from the very start…. rubbing a girls pussy through her panties was a result then progressing to tucking a digit or two into her love hole was the royal pass back in my day as a horny teen but times are a changing guys and us old farts are being left for dead…. teens nowadays would laugh at how my teen generation went about getting action…
Is this neglect of fingering part of larger abandonment of foreplay?
All this would seem to disadvantage the women, and just make sex more wham-blam, the way that teen boys (and many big boys) are likely to do it.
@tyrr,absolutely agree with you on that. What ever happened to taking the girls needs into account, i think most young lads now just want to slam a chick, dump a load on her face and dissapear and its wrong!! I hear these young lads down my local pub banging on all the time about all the birds theyve “smashed” and its ridiculous as they really have no idea.
I remember my first time fingering. She didn’t say anything, she just held my hand to her crotch. So I must have been doing it right.
@ ca UK,
And so the next question is, why do girls /woman put up with sex his way, instead of demanding more sex their way?
@tyrr & ca UK, As to why chicks put up with it, it’s more or less because of peer pressure. Some of the blame lies with the chicks themselves. if you are going to dress provocatively/slutty, expect to get hit on, and have rude remarks hurled your way.
You don’t like it or think it’s sexist or mean?
Too bad. You made the decision to dress provocatively/slutty, you accept responsibility for the reaction such dress may bring you.
As far as fingering and the ‘bases go, here in the states it seems that:
First base: still making out.
Second base: Oral sex, eating pussy, sucking cock.
Third base: Fucking the pussy.
Home: fucking the butthole, butthole to mouth.
I only really fingered my ex once, unless you count fingering while eating her out.
@tyrr,, depends very much on the women i guess,, not all women (infact a good percentage) wont put up with beeing slammed and creamed on as the way their sex goes for very long… if thats how her man treats her then he’ll soon find himself single and she will seek out a lover who will deliver in all departments… lets face it theres still plenty of guys out there such as you, me and darmund who know how to take care of a woman properly… to be honest i really have a problem with these young lads nowadays who really think they know where its at were chicks are concerned,, ha ha maybe im just getting bitter and twisted in my old age…
@darmund,, kind of agree with you about chicks dressing slutty,, i mean going out with their tits hanging out and a dress barely covering her ass is certainly going to attract some attention and any guy hitting on her is sure going to expect to be up to his balls in her by the end of the night and i dont think she should be suprised by that… as for the bases yeh its the same here in the UK pretty much but not many girls will let you fuck their asses,, ive only come across a few in my time that have let me fuck their assholes and as for ass to mouth,, are you kidding me!!!!!!!
I feel I should clarify my earlier post. While I stand by what I said, it’s more along the lines of a kind of double standard that women or some women, seem to have, that they can dress in a slutty manner with their tits literally falling/hanging out or a microskirt cut up to their snizz yet still demand that all dudes be uber polite and not say anything about their body.
Uh huh, can’t have it both ways, ladies, sorry.
I will also say that I’m not the kind of guy who stands on the corner leering and making those kind of remarks at women passing by, nor do I say those kind of things to chicks who ARE dressed like sluts. Actually not saying anything to chicks dressed that way has occasionally been advantageous to me, as the lady in question has noticed my silence and come over for a chat and a couple of times I’ve gone home with then.
ca united kingdom, ass for fucking the butthole and butthole to mouth, sadly porn has helped spread the notion that all chicks are just DYING to get fucked in their buttholes and this has filtered out and down, all the way to the high school level.
Interestingly, fucking the butthole is also seen as many of the more religious conservative types and teens here in the US as acceptable as they don’t count fucking the butthole as ‘sex/having sex,’ therefore even though some chick may have been fucked in her butthole a dozen times or more by the time she graduates from high school, she can still claim to be a virgin.
On a personal note, I have absolutely ZERO interest in fucking a girl in her butthole. I agree with Mel Gibson about it, it’s a one way street with only an exit, not an entry.
@darmund,, im keen on fucking a girls ass,, i like the tightness it offers and it does give me a more intense orgasm… i can blow a bigger load!!!
what’s with all the nasty fat chicks lately???? Show some decent women that aren’t chubby as fuck! They don’t have to be twigs but come one, this chick is still jiggly for seconds after she stops moving.
Seriously…
@no thanks:
Did you really come to a BBW lover’s website
and post THIS:
(and I quote)
” what’s with all the nasty fat chicks lately???? Show some decent women that aren’t chubby as fuck! …this chick is still jiggly for seconds after she stops moving. ”
really?!?!
Spread your hate somewhere else.
Im a 20 year old girl and as far as Im concerned I want to be played with first. Fingering me and eating me out. Granted every guy Ive been with has been absolutely obsessed with my pussy. I have to beg for sex cause my clit gets sore.